Wednesday, 16 April 2008

Just To Let You Know How Things Are From Me!!

After a short stay in East Surrey Hospital I've kept myself fairly busy which then takes my mind of other things. Support and kindness from everyone is still very much appreciated. I'm writing this as I still miss my boy so so much and that I can't see any light at the end of the tunnel. You would think that I should be able to deal with this but truthfully I can't and never be able to, I'm lost without him. Sal and I are getting councilling which I hope will help us, but we'll see. I get real comfort in sitting outside our local church, doing abit of gardening, I think about Luke and Sal all the time. I wish you all well and without you I'm nothing x.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

You're a good friend to have and that's why you have good friends helping you now. As I have always
said we will never get over the loss of Luke but over time we will all gradually come to terms with it.
Hopefully one day you be able to think of Luke with a smile on your face rather than a tear in your eye.
I know that day is a long way off, but it will come.

Al

Anonymous said...

I know a lot of people read this blog and it is difficult for people to leave comments because no one knows what to write.
We all feel your pain and feel useless being unable to offer you anything to help apart from our love and support.
All your friends and family love you and Sally and will do anything they can to help you.
Nobody expects you to be able to cope yet. Luke was your life and it will take a long while for you to find things that seem worthy of your time and effort now.
Much love from
Ju
xxx

Anonymous said...

It was such a pleasure to see you both at Grant's party last night, even though we know how hard it was for you. Please just take one day at a time - and be gentle with yourselves - it's still very early days.

Love Debbie and Shane x

Anonymous said...

I think about Luke every day and know we will never get over the loss of him but we all gradually come to terms with it - although I know you & Sal don't believe that at the moment. There is no time limit for grief so just take one day at a time. We are all here for you both every hour of every day.

Much love

Tina xxxxxx

Unknown said...

Hi Neil and Sally

Thinking of you yesterday watching the game, hope you had a great time and glad you got the right result.

Hope to see you soon

Tom Ashley
xxx